On Good Girls falling for Bad Boys...
"More often then not, they dated the 24-year-old hustler with the latest Jordans and a Maxima (or some other mediocre vehicle that at that time meant the world to a girl whose only worries were Kate Spade or Dooney & Burke). To be 100% real, I don’t believe there is such a thing as being single. Like single, single. There is always someone your mind or heart is with, whether it be an ex or a friend who doesn’t know it yet. There is always somebody else. It’s just a matter of whether that person is special enough go up against potential seekers of #thatthing.
There was a certain girl I was seeing who was absolutely amazing, my timing was right, her timing wasn’t. I could have written a thesis on why the “other guy” wasn’t who she should be with. But there is an unwritten male code never to acknowledge the “other guy.” (See “Hater”). Furthermore, who am I to tell a person who they should or shouldn’t be with. No matter what the circumstance is, we are never to report anything the “other” does (or doesn’t do) that could sway a woman in our direction. As painful as it is to adhere to, it’s an ultimate taboo. Maybe it’s the carefree attitude that bad guys have. The “wrong one” doesn’t have any sense of urgency. Essentially, they don’t care if they get the girl, thus the lack of effort, courting, and whispers of you-cum-first. It’s the selfish approach. Ironically, a lot of people dig it, without even knowing. Just remember, getting completely wrapped up in one person"
Hmmm, according to my close and not so close circle of female friends, we wouldn't mind opting for the man who's got his head (and his heart) in the right place.
"More often then not, they dated the 24-year-old hustler with the latest Jordans and a Maxima (or some other mediocre vehicle that at that time meant the world to a girl whose only worries were Kate Spade or Dooney & Burke). To be 100% real, I don’t believe there is such a thing as being single. Like single, single. There is always someone your mind or heart is with, whether it be an ex or a friend who doesn’t know it yet. There is always somebody else. It’s just a matter of whether that person is special enough go up against potential seekers of #thatthing.
There was a certain girl I was seeing who was absolutely amazing, my timing was right, her timing wasn’t. I could have written a thesis on why the “other guy” wasn’t who she should be with. But there is an unwritten male code never to acknowledge the “other guy.” (See “Hater”). Furthermore, who am I to tell a person who they should or shouldn’t be with. No matter what the circumstance is, we are never to report anything the “other” does (or doesn’t do) that could sway a woman in our direction. As painful as it is to adhere to, it’s an ultimate taboo. Maybe it’s the carefree attitude that bad guys have. The “wrong one” doesn’t have any sense of urgency. Essentially, they don’t care if they get the girl, thus the lack of effort, courting, and whispers of you-cum-first. It’s the selfish approach. Ironically, a lot of people dig it, without even knowing. Just remember, getting completely wrapped up in one person"
Hmmm, according to my close and not so close circle of female friends, we wouldn't mind opting for the man who's got his head (and his heart) in the right place.
see HoneyMag.com for the full interview.
I def feel him and u on this :) and... i got lucky with the good guy and bad boy... lol
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